Thursday, December 8, 2011

Saya TAK KUTUK org Sabah, jangan salah anggap!

Regarding with my last entry, which was about my maid, ada 'silent reader' yang mengaku dia org Sabah,  sudah hantar personal email, accusing saya mengutuk org sabah.. Saya tak sangka ada yg salah anggap dan menuduh saya bukan2..  Tolonglah baca betul2 with my previous entry tu, yess she is a SABAHAN and not to forget, a MALAYSIAN too!

Saya tak 'specifically' kata org Sabah itu semua jahat, saya cakap MAID SAYA TU YANG BUAT PERANGAI! For your information,  saya ada ramai kenalan dan personal friends whom are SABAHAN too, tapi mereka xdela buat perangai mcm ni ok!

Blog adalah satu instrument di internet untuk share info e.g pengalaman hidup, luahan rasa/hati utk readers/bloggers yg lain.. Begitu la saya menggunakan teknologi blog utk saya menceritakan pengalaman pahit manis hidup saya dgn TIDAK mmbuat mana2 pihak pon tersinggung. Sudah terang2 saya katakan yg saya kesal dan sedih dgn attitude maid saya tu, dan  terbukti yg dia mmg mencuri our personal stuff, SHE BETRAYED OUR TRUST! Are u trying to explain that mencuri brg majikan itu tak salah ke?? ATAU saya tak patut ke post entri sebegitu kepada readers yg lain espc yg ada maid di rumah?? What if she's from other NEGERI, let say dari KEDAH or if she's an INDONESIAN, would u care to say anything about them??

TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN, u know who u are: Kalau awak mmg terasa hati, dan terus menuduh saya sebegitu, saya da tak boleh buat apa .. I'm not saying that u cannot voice out apa u tak puas hati. Bagi saya apa yg saya share ttg maid saya di dalam previous entry adalah REALITI, saya bukan mereka cerita untuk jadi 'penyedap rasa' di blog ini..

Satu lagi apa yang saya tulis ttg maid saya tu adalah utk saya SHARE pengalaman of having MAIDS at home kepada readers yg lain, bukan utk saya seorang dan niat saya bertujuan utk kita semua lebih berhati2 dgn mereka ini tak kira dari NEGERI atau dari mana2 NEGARA MANA PON.

Last but not least, ya, saya reply di public, kerana di lubuk hati saya mmg tiada niat sebesar kuman pon ingin mengutuk orang SABAH dan juga kpd readers yg lain yg mungkin tersinggung dgn entri saya sebelom ini, PLEASE DON'T TAKE IT PERSONAL...

ADIOS.. Tepuk dada tanya selera...

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

SAYONARA, maid! Its just not your lucky day..

As Salam readers.. Sorry tidak kesempatan untuk update entry.. has been busy to the max.. WHY?? Its been a week that I've been maid-less.. Yupp the recent maid has been sent home for good.. SAYONARA! Now everything I have to do it myself espc taking care of the two girls + housework dari menyapu dan laundry.  ITS ENDLESS WORK bebey!

WHAT HAPPENED exactly to the maid sampai me and WN hantar dia balik terus???

Date: 26th November 2011, Saturday
Venue: My place..

Aunte', the maid has been vomiting with blood that morning, while WN went to GH, Seremban visiting his uncle admitted kat sana kejap.. so I just called the ambulance to pick her up and send to hospital for further check up.. I was a bit panic, sbb tgk baju dia berlumuran darah.. Kids started crying to see her like that.. Yelah aku tgk macam da nak mati je org tua ni.. My heart screams  'PLEASE DONT DIE IN MY HOUSE!'

NOTE: Aku dan WN panggil dia AUNTE', according to a Sabahan friend,  AUNTE'  dalam bahasa Suluk di Sabah, its a MAKCIK to them..   

Sent sms to WN, informing wat happen.. Its been 3rd time me called the ambulance this time.. Sebelom ni dia ada drama 'pengsan' few times, which made me called the ambulance straight away.. Ambulance came few minutes later, as diorg da biasa with her case.. Driver ambulance recognise my maid, and he made a statement, 'Org tua yang sama kan pengsan ni?' I just smiled at him, terus explained to the attended paramedics of what happened, showed them the blood stains on her shirt.

Oh yess, before Aunte' stepped in to the ambulance she said she forgot to bring her handbag, I just tell her 'Tak payah bawak, kat sana nnti kalau pegi wat X-Ray ke apa xde sapa nak jaga, takut nnti hilang pulak awak punye handbag.' Sbb I will come later with WN bila dia balik S'ban.

Meanwhile, aku geledah barang2 dia, since my kids's clothes has been missing.. Sebelom tu ada jugak cari tapi x jumpa.. But that time tak terfikir nak geledah handbag dia tu.. By afternoon, WN came home.. He straight away ajak to 'spot check' on her stuff.. I said u tgk dulu as I kene tgkkan budak2 ni.. Ada yg nak susu la, nak kene tukar diapers la and mcm2 lagi..

Few seconds later while WN in her room, he called me, nampak handbag sedang digeledah.. WN being WN. Smarter than me as always.. I was shocked! all her baju semua keluar, dalam baju ada few small pouches stuff yg jahit seperti ni:

Gambar x clear, this is her baju, nmpak few pouches tu??

this one clear kan?? Cuba teka apa bndanya ni??

Yang ni pulak dia jahit keliling pinggang di seluar pulak!

Inilah certain duit syiling yg dia amik.. Jangan main2, syiling EURO pon ada ok!

APA DIA BUAT? 

She actually wrapped the coins with plain paper and a masking tape, then masukkan dalam pouch kecik2 ni, baru dia jahit dalam baju or seluar.. We even found dalam her undies e.g BRA ok!


BELIEVE IT OR NOT! IN HER BRA!! URGHHH!
 Ntah saper punye brooch la dia rembat!
All  I know its not mine!
DIGITAL CAMERA and HANDPHONE kau angkut dalam bra kau!
Padanla kau kalau jalan terbongkok2!
Few money too! Gold medal pon bedal nak amik, dia ingatkan EMAS tulen agaknya!  ST###ID!
Laki aku punye GPS pon dia sempat amik! HUH!
Another accessories too!
Last shot with her stolen stuff yang dia berangan nak bawak balik kampung!


Sepandai2 tupai melompat, akhirnya jatuh 'gedebab' ke tanah juga.. 

I told WN to wait until the hospital informing apa sakit dia. Apa2 pon aku nekad nak hantar dia balik terus! Tak payah hantar polis.. Kita gertak kaw-kaw kalau dia x nak mengaku..

By 6pm hospital called updating the maid's status, she actual;y tak sakit, hanya ada batuk biasa, darah yg dimuntahkan act dia korek her tekak to keluar kan darah tu.. The doctor suspected dia ada 'bullemia'.. ada jugak org yg pandai drama smpai tahap ni kan?? WHAT EVER la old woman!

Meanwhile,  seems doctor kata nothing serious, WN sempat beli/booked online flight ticket, planned to send her tomorrow terus.. tak payah tunggu lagi..

Picked her up from the hospital, we left the 'stolen' stuff in her room just like that, cant wait to see her reaction.. But, dia pandai berlakon, dia buat tak tahu as soon she entered her room.. WN da x tahan, called her to come kat living area.. Apa lagi sesi INTERROGATION LA! Kitorg da mcam dalam bilik siasatan la  makcik tu kene soal jawab!

Maids are maids... Itula perungkapan my sister to me.. Tak kira maids dari Indonesia or Malaysia or others too, pemikiran , personaliti dan cara dibesarkan, terdesak dlam kemiskinan, mmbuatkan mereka jadi sperti ini.. MY MAID IS A MALAYSIAN! Lagi satu, diorg ni bila da buat salah macamana pon takkan mengaku sampai mampusss! 

Interrogation went almost 2 hours... Gertak habis2an.. Sampai ugut pegi POLIS.. then she cried and melutut, baru nak mengaku salah! HUH! Alasan takut balik kampung gaji x cukup, bayar hutang anak, sbb amik barang2 ni.. 

OK.. Enough is enough! I asked her to get ready, pegi balai polis skrg.. Malahan kitorg berlakon je.. Nak tgk dia camner.. Dia tunggu punye tunggu, kitorg tetap x gerak2..Selamba kitorg layan tgk TV..  

Esok by afternoon baru bgtau dia that u pack ur stuff and go!

Apa yg trjadi mmg terbuka hati dan mata about these maids..They can DO such things beyond our expectation.. Jangan pandang muka baik, solat x tinggal, x semestinya baik mcam malaikat.. AKu anggap Its BLESSING IN DISGUISE! Tuhan Maha Kaya.. Pls protect my family dari bnda2 yg tidak diingini berlaku..

Skrg ni I have to be strong being maid-less.. With No.3 in my tummy, and to take care the 2 princesses.. Nak tak nak kene tempuh juga.. My routine has change, not just that, kena pandai with time management.. Insyaallah everything will be fine..

ADIOS! Anak2 da bgn from short nap tadi... :)