Salam.. Its been a while.. busy with… apa lagi kerjala.. Really tired working for 5 ½ days weekly, eventhough pangkat x seberapa.. Then cuti pon, company only declared minimum of 10days listed as public holidays, tak ikut betol2 dlm calendar cuti Malaysia.. ada jugak company macam ni ek.. But what to do, I have no choice, but to stay..earn gaji x seberapa every month, at least bolehla bayar apa yg patut, itupon issue cheque gaji pon x menentu like last month, 11hb baru clear my cheque, oo gile.. So sesiapa yg da ada keje yg stable & company pon ok bayar gaji ikut time, should be bersyukur as compared to me ya.. jagnla nak mengada2 complaint itu & ini**sigh**
Well, I receive a call & visit from a long time friend.. my ex-schoolmate… Her name AFE.. AFE is married with 2 boys.. AFE used to one of the hot chicks during my school time, ramai peminat, ramai boys nk jadi her BF.. But Tuhan tu nak menguji kesabaran.. Lately, she’s got a problem with the hubby.. The details x payah cerita la… The hubby did something without her knowing sekali kantoi pulak thru… *toot*.. She feels its not right for her hubby to do that. Last week after she found out what happened.. so she confronted the hubby. Too bad the hubby just x nak mengaku immediately… but somehow… malas nak continue… kesian to my fren… But from what she told me, both of them are act having communication problem dari dulu lagi.. both byk simpan sampai masa meletup tak tentu pasal.. But I hope, everything will be fine… They need to sort out & sit down thrash out apa2 yg x puas hati & get things done.. FOR me , masih boleh diselamatkan… J Its take two to tango. Masing2 kene pujuk hati & cool down…try to cherish all sweet moments together ya!
Yess, I mengaku, I don’t have right to comment other ppl’s marriage apa lagi, kawan sndiri, and I myself, pon baru setahun jagung married.. Still a lot of bumpy road to go thru out there.. Rezeki & cerita hidop masing2 semua berbeza… Cuma each individuals kene pandai2 pilih which junction to take ahead.. J
Then received another call for a long time fren too.. married & the marriage is almost hujung tanduk.. Such horrifying experience to share about as compared to AFE’s story as above… For me ITS STUPID..
My fren named SE, married & now not able to work coz she’s having pregnancy complication, now she’s 5 months in her pregnancy.. Due to her condition, the O&G advised her to quit her job & resting smpai brsalin.. she decided to quit her job, because dah lama sgt kawin & x da rezki nak ada zuriat, sampaila sekarang.. SO she is depending on her hubby’s salary now.. The hubby earns about RM6K (RM6K bersih da tolak semua apa yg patut!) a month.. kira lebih dari mampula jugak sbb anak baru nak masuk satu kan.. Pendekkan cerita, the hubby cannot take the burden of paying RM500 & RM 200 for the wife’s car’s loan installment& credit cards… The wife said pls help her to pay until she got a job after brsalin nnti.. so kene sabarla kan with the amount of RM700.. So right now, the hubby is having affair with another woman.. & planning to divorce her after brsalin nnti. Alasan, x boleh terima isteri x keje & have to pay RM700 a month, lagi satu yang I tak tahan dgr, he is having a ffair because *the other woman* is working & he doesn’t have to pay anything for her debts.. Tambah lagi, with RM700, he actually can pay & buy other stuff.. Tak tahula if my fren jenis yg demanding, but knowing her, she is not that tye of person.. I really cannot accept the reason why the hubby did that… Ntahla… Kadang2 manusia always want to take a short cut, tak tahu byk lagi haru biru ahead… I cant believe that ada jugak species manusia yg dipanggil suami can actually did that to his wife & apa lagi Anak Orang!. I’m actually almost menangis writing this entry… Its affecting my emotional feeling today.. Really sad & disappointed with what happened.. & its actually open up my eyes with this sort of things.. Just beware & kene bersedia with wat will happen ahead.. just do yr best being a WIFE! Yela.. accepting the fact that, MANUSIA BOLEH BERUBAH SEKELIP MATA...
BYk sgt cerai berai skrg ni, da macam satu culture & ppl don’t take MARRIAGE as IBADAH.. sad thing to say… I hope God will her the most strength to go thru, apa lagi berbadan dua, xde support frm the hubby.. But takpe, rezki anak bila da lahirkan nnti sapa yg tahu.. InsyaALLAH I pray she will have more happiness to come..
Always pray to GOD, to elakkan musibah & malapetaka terjadi pada kita..
