Memoir of my little knight - Part 1

As Salam... I will have to to summarize the event before and after delivered my little boy, Farees Nokman (FN).  I will start on the week of 24-26weeks of my pregnancy...

24-26weeks
We went for 24weeks check up  at our favourite GP near our place. She confirmed that it's a BOY  this time.. My heart was exploding with excitement when she told the good news. Yelah dah ada 2 org anak perempuan, nak jugala anak lelaki...Alhamdulilah Tuhan Maha Mendengar, He kabulkan my doa.. :)

We decided to deliver at the private hospital nearby, Columbia Asia Puchong this time.. Yelah 'kompeni' baru WN cover for the maternity expenses.. Nak la merasa private touch pf services kan...

30-31weeks
As I still remember, WN and me went for a shopping for my little boy as the due date was getting close. So we went to The Curve and Tesco Mutiara Dmnsara... Due to long hours of walking, I had a strong contraction after few hours we reached home. I told WN, the pain was quite intense, as if I'm about to deliver...

I cried, sbb saper la yg nak tunggu and look after my 2 girls if I have to rush to the hospital that moment.. Dalam diam , my loving hubby called everyone in the family including family di Seremban to stand by, or anyone dgn rela hati can come that nite.. Alhamdulillah , my MIL, my sister and biras came to rescue.. Thanks to all of them..

At 11pm, we rushed to Columbia Asia Puchong as I did have my records with the Gynae, Dr.S.. But Me and WN was really frustrated with his decision to refer my case to Putrajaya Hospital, as he doesn't wanna take the risk of me to deliver earlier before the due date... Alasannya, the hospital doesn't have the expertise and the facilites to cater with the pre-term baby ( 30weeks).. Arghhhhhhhh!

By 1-2am, we reached Putrajaya Hospital, I was panicked 'kut-kut' the hospital x nak terima my case becoz I didn't have the 'buku merah' with me (Standard government maternity check up book) this time.. Mmg tak buat kali ni sbb sudah plan nak deliver at private hospital.. But as the nurse said, "Takpe Puan, kami terima kes ini dan akan cuba sedaya boleh, jgn risau ya. Sudah byk kes dari swasta refer ke sini".  I was relieved with the response.. :)

As the pain was getting worse, the nurses did the normal procedures and observations while waiting for the doctor to come..  By 3.30am, MO (Medical Officer) came to me and said, "Puan, your contraction is quite strong. So u kene admit ya and we will do the necessary treatment to reduce the pain, kalau boleh nak bagi contraction pain tu hilang terus, kalau tak, the possibilities for u to deliver awal mmg tinggi, so we will try our best for that not to happen". Nak gugur jantung rasanya bila dia ckp mcm tu..

I quickly sms-ed to WN informing that I have be in the ward for few days. He replied that he knew it as one of the nurses informed him and he was at the counter to do the registration.

....to be continued... the little knight awaken... :)

Welcome to the world my son!

As Salam.. Dah almost setahun tak update blog... tangan menggigil mengetap keyboard sbb dah lama sgt x menaip.. 

Well readers, introducing my 1st son.. MUHAMMAD FAREES NOKMAN..  He was born on 23rd June 2012. Me and husband gone thru a lot while I was carrying him until he was born.. Been wanting to post a memoir of carrying and after deliver him.. Byk suka dan duka happening during that moment..

InsyaAllah will find the time to write again... while all its still fresh in my head :)

Saya TAK KUTUK org Sabah, jangan salah anggap!

Regarding with my last entry, which was about my maid, ada 'silent reader' yang mengaku dia org Sabah,  sudah hantar personal email, accusing saya mengutuk org sabah.. Saya tak sangka ada yg salah anggap dan menuduh saya bukan2..  Tolonglah baca betul2 with my previous entry tu, yess she is a SABAHAN and not to forget, a MALAYSIAN too!

Saya tak 'specifically' kata org Sabah itu semua jahat, saya cakap MAID SAYA TU YANG BUAT PERANGAI! For your information,  saya ada ramai kenalan dan personal friends whom are SABAHAN too, tapi mereka xdela buat perangai mcm ni ok!

Blog adalah satu instrument di internet untuk share info e.g pengalaman hidup, luahan rasa/hati utk readers/bloggers yg lain.. Begitu la saya menggunakan teknologi blog utk saya menceritakan pengalaman pahit manis hidup saya dgn TIDAK mmbuat mana2 pihak pon tersinggung. Sudah terang2 saya katakan yg saya kesal dan sedih dgn attitude maid saya tu, dan  terbukti yg dia mmg mencuri our personal stuff, SHE BETRAYED OUR TRUST! Are u trying to explain that mencuri brg majikan itu tak salah ke?? ATAU saya tak patut ke post entri sebegitu kepada readers yg lain espc yg ada maid di rumah?? What if she's from other NEGERI, let say dari KEDAH or if she's an INDONESIAN, would u care to say anything about them??

TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN, u know who u are: Kalau awak mmg terasa hati, dan terus menuduh saya sebegitu, saya da tak boleh buat apa .. I'm not saying that u cannot voice out apa u tak puas hati. Bagi saya apa yg saya share ttg maid saya di dalam previous entry adalah REALITI, saya bukan mereka cerita untuk jadi 'penyedap rasa' di blog ini..

Satu lagi apa yang saya tulis ttg maid saya tu adalah utk saya SHARE pengalaman of having MAIDS at home kepada readers yg lain, bukan utk saya seorang dan niat saya bertujuan utk kita semua lebih berhati2 dgn mereka ini tak kira dari NEGERI atau dari mana2 NEGARA MANA PON.

Last but not least, ya, saya reply di public, kerana di lubuk hati saya mmg tiada niat sebesar kuman pon ingin mengutuk orang SABAH dan juga kpd readers yg lain yg mungkin tersinggung dgn entri saya sebelom ini, PLEASE DON'T TAKE IT PERSONAL...

ADIOS.. Tepuk dada tanya selera...

SAYONARA, maid! Its just not your lucky day..

As Salam readers.. Sorry tidak kesempatan untuk update entry.. has been busy to the max.. WHY?? Its been a week that I've been maid-less.. Yupp the recent maid has been sent home for good.. SAYONARA! Now everything I have to do it myself espc taking care of the two girls + housework dari menyapu dan laundry.  ITS ENDLESS WORK bebey!

WHAT HAPPENED exactly to the maid sampai me and WN hantar dia balik terus???

Date: 26th November 2011, Saturday
Venue: My place..

Aunte', the maid has been vomiting with blood that morning, while WN went to GH, Seremban visiting his uncle admitted kat sana kejap.. so I just called the ambulance to pick her up and send to hospital for further check up.. I was a bit panic, sbb tgk baju dia berlumuran darah.. Kids started crying to see her like that.. Yelah aku tgk macam da nak mati je org tua ni.. My heart screams  'PLEASE DONT DIE IN MY HOUSE!'

NOTE: Aku dan WN panggil dia AUNTE', according to a Sabahan friend,  AUNTE'  dalam bahasa Suluk di Sabah, its a MAKCIK to them..   

Sent sms to WN, informing wat happen.. Its been 3rd time me called the ambulance this time.. Sebelom ni dia ada drama 'pengsan' few times, which made me called the ambulance straight away.. Ambulance came few minutes later, as diorg da biasa with her case.. Driver ambulance recognise my maid, and he made a statement, 'Org tua yang sama kan pengsan ni?' I just smiled at him, terus explained to the attended paramedics of what happened, showed them the blood stains on her shirt.

Oh yess, before Aunte' stepped in to the ambulance she said she forgot to bring her handbag, I just tell her 'Tak payah bawak, kat sana nnti kalau pegi wat X-Ray ke apa xde sapa nak jaga, takut nnti hilang pulak awak punye handbag.' Sbb I will come later with WN bila dia balik S'ban.

Meanwhile, aku geledah barang2 dia, since my kids's clothes has been missing.. Sebelom tu ada jugak cari tapi x jumpa.. But that time tak terfikir nak geledah handbag dia tu.. By afternoon, WN came home.. He straight away ajak to 'spot check' on her stuff.. I said u tgk dulu as I kene tgkkan budak2 ni.. Ada yg nak susu la, nak kene tukar diapers la and mcm2 lagi..

Few seconds later while WN in her room, he called me, nampak handbag sedang digeledah.. WN being WN. Smarter than me as always.. I was shocked! all her baju semua keluar, dalam baju ada few small pouches stuff yg jahit seperti ni:

Gambar x clear, this is her baju, nmpak few pouches tu??

this one clear kan?? Cuba teka apa bndanya ni??

Yang ni pulak dia jahit keliling pinggang di seluar pulak!

Inilah certain duit syiling yg dia amik.. Jangan main2, syiling EURO pon ada ok!

APA DIA BUAT? 

She actually wrapped the coins with plain paper and a masking tape, then masukkan dalam pouch kecik2 ni, baru dia jahit dalam baju or seluar.. We even found dalam her undies e.g BRA ok!

BELIEVE IT OR NOT! IN HER BRA!! URGHHH!
 Ntah saper punye brooch la dia rembat!
All  I know its not mine!

DIGITAL CAMERA and HANDPHONE kau angkut dalam bra kau!
Padanla kau kalau jalan terbongkok2!

Few money too! Gold medal pon bedal nak amik, dia ingatkan EMAS tulen agaknya!  ST###ID!

Laki aku punye GPS pon dia sempat amik! HUH!

Another accessories too!

Last shot with her stolen stuff yang dia berangan nak bawak balik kampung!

Sepandai2 tupai melompat, akhirnya jatuh 'gedebab' ke tanah juga.. 

I told WN to wait until the hospital informing apa sakit dia. Apa2 pon aku nekad nak hantar dia balik terus! Tak payah hantar polis.. Kita gertak kaw-kaw kalau dia x nak mengaku..

By 6pm hospital called updating the maid's status, she actual;y tak sakit, hanya ada batuk biasa, darah yg dimuntahkan act dia korek her tekak to keluar kan darah tu.. The doctor suspected dia ada 'bullemia'.. ada jugak org yg pandai drama smpai tahap ni kan?? WHAT EVER la old woman!

Meanwhile,  seems doctor kata nothing serious, WN sempat beli/booked online flight ticket, planned to send her tomorrow terus.. tak payah tunggu lagi..

Picked her up from the hospital, we left the 'stolen' stuff in her room just like that, cant wait to see her reaction.. But, dia pandai berlakon, dia buat tak tahu as soon she entered her room.. WN da x tahan, called her to come kat living area.. Apa lagi sesi INTERROGATION LA! Kitorg da mcam dalam bilik siasatan la  makcik tu kene soal jawab!

Maids are maids... Itula perungkapan my sister to me.. Tak kira maids dari Indonesia or Malaysia or others too, pemikiran , personaliti dan cara dibesarkan, terdesak dlam kemiskinan, mmbuatkan mereka jadi sperti ini.. MY MAID IS A MALAYSIAN! Lagi satu, diorg ni bila da buat salah macamana pon takkan mengaku sampai mampusss! 

Interrogation went almost 2 hours... Gertak habis2an.. Sampai ugut pegi POLIS.. then she cried and melutut, baru nak mengaku salah! HUH! Alasan takut balik kampung gaji x cukup, bayar hutang anak, sbb amik barang2 ni.. 

OK.. Enough is enough! I asked her to get ready, pegi balai polis skrg.. Malahan kitorg berlakon je.. Nak tgk dia camner.. Dia tunggu punye tunggu, kitorg tetap x gerak2..Selamba kitorg layan tgk TV..  

Esok by afternoon baru bgtau dia that u pack ur stuff and go!

Apa yg trjadi mmg terbuka hati dan mata about these maids..They can DO such things beyond our expectation.. Jangan pandang muka baik, solat x tinggal, x semestinya baik mcam malaikat.. AKu anggap Its BLESSING IN DISGUISE! Tuhan Maha Kaya.. Pls protect my family dari bnda2 yg tidak diingini berlaku..

Skrg ni I have to be strong being maid-less.. With No.3 in my tummy, and to take care the 2 princesses.. Nak tak nak kene tempuh juga.. My routine has change, not just that, kena pandai with time management.. Insyaallah everything will be fine..

ADIOS! Anak2 da bgn from short nap tadi... :)

Bola + mini b'day celebration for WN!

Sementara my Ms.N belom menyerang saat pagi Jumaat ni, its best for me to update my blog 'yg mcm biskut ni' :)

Last week was a 'demam bola' week.. The HM (harimau muda) was back on action struggling for gold medal at SEA Games recently..  Well, WN is not a football person.. dia mmg x layan bola.. its unusual for a MAN yg tak layan or even nak tgk FOOTBALL.. lagila that week happened to be HIS bday kan..
Utk memeriahkan keadaan, my bro and his family came to my house last Saturday..  Hari yg sama pulak ada match M'SIA vs MYANMAR utk tentukan sape yg layak ke final nnti.. It was a tough game, da lebih suku pertama game both belom ada gol lagi... SANGAP!

Dah lebih 45 minit masih belom gol.. borrringggg

Sementara kitorg semua tgh layan bola, umat2 dalam umah tu ni la yg diorg tgh buat...

WN yg x minat bola, melayan diri sndiri ngn gadgetnya, apalgi ber-FB le!

RN and her fav cousin, baru lps mandi

My bro kesangapan & kebosanan tgk bola yg susah betol nak masuk gol!

Diorg dua menunjukkan skills masing2

AA: Mama Babah kita x abes2 tgk bola la.
RN: Mama kita je yg layan, Babah kita 'tak kuasa I'

Akhirnya M'sia dapat gol satu (1), cuba bertahan smpai habis waktu perlawanan. Manala tahu kan Myanmar tiba2 dpt bolos satu gol pulak.. Tak sempat amik gambor sbb trlalu excited jerit 'GOL!' bersama2 my bro and his wife! YEAYYYYYYY!

psssttt: masa ni WN da masuk bilik, melayan diri ,solat and tukar ke PC pulak.. hehehe..

Penyokong Ultra Msia di stadium Jakarta meraikan kemenangan HM

Alhamdulilah, Msia dapat ke final.. So apa plan lepas tu?? Aplagi pi makan kat luar la.. Sambil tu bole celebrate 'besday' boy tu kan.. Shiann dia... Sementara tunggu abes maghrib, anak2 sempat le tgk BabyTV kejap.. 

Amik kau! ni namanya 1st class, betol2 brp sentimeter je dari TV 

Shiannn EN, kakaknya terus lupakan dia sbb ada kawan lain..

Hmm terbaca 'org tu' nya status.. KONON nak celebrate bola masuk final... Sayang, celebrate besday u le Laling! Apa2 pon I LAP U! Semoga diberkati selalu hendaknya..

Lepas semua da ready, kami bertolak ke restoran PAPARICH.. it takes 10minutes from our place :)

sementara tunggu makanan sampai

manjenyaaa, terus x nmpak adek..

RN tiba2 nak makan!

Budak baik, senang betol nk makan..

EN sibuk jugak nak ngappp..

abes pinggan maid.. berteraburrrr..

our view at that place...

Itula saje entry kali ni.. will update u more later.. da mula rasa x best ni.. Ms.N da mula menyapa... uwekkkk!

Menang tanpa kesombongan dan kalah tanpa banyak alasan

As salam all, didn't have much of a strength to update kali ni.. My Ms.N (Nausea) menyerang.. Tapi apa pon there's something that I really want to share with u.. Someone posted a great article about our team 'Harimau Muda' won Gold Medal  at SEA Games recently.. The writer is a 'penulis bebas' from Indonesia.. Dia meluahkan perasaannya kenapa M'sia menang pada match yg lepas.. Jadi all readers, ada tersurat dan tersirat disebalik penulisan beliau..

Tolong hilangkan kebencian dan dendam. by Ariff Bawono

Aku tarik nafas panjang after reading the articcle, kerana bersyukur ada senggelintir rakyat Indonesia yang terbuka minda dan fikirannya. Its just a FOOTBALL, kalau marahkan nyamuk jangan pula kelambu yang dibakar... Hope we, MALAYSIAN don't do that others apalagi dendam, minta jauhkan dari kesumat hati..

Back to previous entry 3 perkara yg menghancurkan hidup kita

I rest my case..

3 + 3 perkara..

Someone nice posted something nice on his/her FB wall today..

1) ‎Ada 3 hal yang tak pernah kembali:
1. Waktu
2. Perkataan
3. Kesempatan

2) Ada 3 hal yg menghancurkan kehidupan kita:
1. Kemarahan
2. Kesombongan
3. Dendam, iri, dengki.

3) Ada 3 hal yg tak boleh hilang dari kehidupan kita:
1. Cinta kasih
2. Keluarga
3. Sahabat

....But.. for me.. 

Item no.1 and no.2 di atas adalah antara 3+ 3 perkara yg susah utk ditempuhi apa lagi utk melaksanakan sbg Hamba Allah swt, walaupun ayat-ayatnya sungguh mudah utk dibaca kan? :)

Jadi beringat-ingatlah semua ya.. (a reminder to myself too)