SAYONARA, maid! Its just not your lucky day..

As Salam readers.. Sorry tidak kesempatan untuk update entry.. has been busy to the max.. WHY?? Its been a week that I've been maid-less.. Yupp the recent maid has been sent home for good.. SAYONARA! Now everything I have to do it myself espc taking care of the two girls + housework dari menyapu dan laundry.  ITS ENDLESS WORK bebey!

WHAT HAPPENED exactly to the maid sampai me and WN hantar dia balik terus???

Date: 26th November 2011, Saturday
Venue: My place..

Aunte', the maid has been vomiting with blood that morning, while WN went to GH, Seremban visiting his uncle admitted kat sana kejap.. so I just called the ambulance to pick her up and send to hospital for further check up.. I was a bit panic, sbb tgk baju dia berlumuran darah.. Kids started crying to see her like that.. Yelah aku tgk macam da nak mati je org tua ni.. My heart screams  'PLEASE DONT DIE IN MY HOUSE!'

NOTE: Aku dan WN panggil dia AUNTE', according to a Sabahan friend,  AUNTE'  dalam bahasa Suluk di Sabah, its a MAKCIK to them..   

Sent sms to WN, informing wat happen.. Its been 3rd time me called the ambulance this time.. Sebelom ni dia ada drama 'pengsan' few times, which made me called the ambulance straight away.. Ambulance came few minutes later, as diorg da biasa with her case.. Driver ambulance recognise my maid, and he made a statement, 'Org tua yang sama kan pengsan ni?' I just smiled at him, terus explained to the attended paramedics of what happened, showed them the blood stains on her shirt.

Oh yess, before Aunte' stepped in to the ambulance she said she forgot to bring her handbag, I just tell her 'Tak payah bawak, kat sana nnti kalau pegi wat X-Ray ke apa xde sapa nak jaga, takut nnti hilang pulak awak punye handbag.' Sbb I will come later with WN bila dia balik S'ban.

Meanwhile, aku geledah barang2 dia, since my kids's clothes has been missing.. Sebelom tu ada jugak cari tapi x jumpa.. But that time tak terfikir nak geledah handbag dia tu.. By afternoon, WN came home.. He straight away ajak to 'spot check' on her stuff.. I said u tgk dulu as I kene tgkkan budak2 ni.. Ada yg nak susu la, nak kene tukar diapers la and mcm2 lagi..

Few seconds later while WN in her room, he called me, nampak handbag sedang digeledah.. WN being WN. Smarter than me as always.. I was shocked! all her baju semua keluar, dalam baju ada few small pouches stuff yg jahit seperti ni:

Gambar x clear, this is her baju, nmpak few pouches tu??

this one clear kan?? Cuba teka apa bndanya ni??

Yang ni pulak dia jahit keliling pinggang di seluar pulak!

Inilah certain duit syiling yg dia amik.. Jangan main2, syiling EURO pon ada ok!

APA DIA BUAT? 

She actually wrapped the coins with plain paper and a masking tape, then masukkan dalam pouch kecik2 ni, baru dia jahit dalam baju or seluar.. We even found dalam her undies e.g BRA ok!

BELIEVE IT OR NOT! IN HER BRA!! URGHHH!
 Ntah saper punye brooch la dia rembat!
All  I know its not mine!

DIGITAL CAMERA and HANDPHONE kau angkut dalam bra kau!
Padanla kau kalau jalan terbongkok2!

Few money too! Gold medal pon bedal nak amik, dia ingatkan EMAS tulen agaknya!  ST###ID!

Laki aku punye GPS pon dia sempat amik! HUH!

Another accessories too!

Last shot with her stolen stuff yang dia berangan nak bawak balik kampung!

Sepandai2 tupai melompat, akhirnya jatuh 'gedebab' ke tanah juga.. 

I told WN to wait until the hospital informing apa sakit dia. Apa2 pon aku nekad nak hantar dia balik terus! Tak payah hantar polis.. Kita gertak kaw-kaw kalau dia x nak mengaku..

By 6pm hospital called updating the maid's status, she actual;y tak sakit, hanya ada batuk biasa, darah yg dimuntahkan act dia korek her tekak to keluar kan darah tu.. The doctor suspected dia ada 'bullemia'.. ada jugak org yg pandai drama smpai tahap ni kan?? WHAT EVER la old woman!

Meanwhile,  seems doctor kata nothing serious, WN sempat beli/booked online flight ticket, planned to send her tomorrow terus.. tak payah tunggu lagi..

Picked her up from the hospital, we left the 'stolen' stuff in her room just like that, cant wait to see her reaction.. But, dia pandai berlakon, dia buat tak tahu as soon she entered her room.. WN da x tahan, called her to come kat living area.. Apa lagi sesi INTERROGATION LA! Kitorg da mcam dalam bilik siasatan la  makcik tu kene soal jawab!

Maids are maids... Itula perungkapan my sister to me.. Tak kira maids dari Indonesia or Malaysia or others too, pemikiran , personaliti dan cara dibesarkan, terdesak dlam kemiskinan, mmbuatkan mereka jadi sperti ini.. MY MAID IS A MALAYSIAN! Lagi satu, diorg ni bila da buat salah macamana pon takkan mengaku sampai mampusss! 

Interrogation went almost 2 hours... Gertak habis2an.. Sampai ugut pegi POLIS.. then she cried and melutut, baru nak mengaku salah! HUH! Alasan takut balik kampung gaji x cukup, bayar hutang anak, sbb amik barang2 ni.. 

OK.. Enough is enough! I asked her to get ready, pegi balai polis skrg.. Malahan kitorg berlakon je.. Nak tgk dia camner.. Dia tunggu punye tunggu, kitorg tetap x gerak2..Selamba kitorg layan tgk TV..  

Esok by afternoon baru bgtau dia that u pack ur stuff and go!

Apa yg trjadi mmg terbuka hati dan mata about these maids..They can DO such things beyond our expectation.. Jangan pandang muka baik, solat x tinggal, x semestinya baik mcam malaikat.. AKu anggap Its BLESSING IN DISGUISE! Tuhan Maha Kaya.. Pls protect my family dari bnda2 yg tidak diingini berlaku..

Skrg ni I have to be strong being maid-less.. With No.3 in my tummy, and to take care the 2 princesses.. Nak tak nak kene tempuh juga.. My routine has change, not just that, kena pandai with time management.. Insyaallah everything will be fine..

ADIOS! Anak2 da bgn from short nap tadi... :)

Menang tanpa kesombongan dan kalah tanpa banyak alasan

As salam all, didn't have much of a strength to update kali ni.. My Ms.N (Nausea) menyerang.. Tapi apa pon there's something that I really want to share with u.. Someone posted a great article about our team 'Harimau Muda' won Gold Medal  at SEA Games recently.. The writer is a 'penulis bebas' from Indonesia.. Dia meluahkan perasaannya kenapa M'sia menang pada match yg lepas.. Jadi all readers, ada tersurat dan tersirat disebalik penulisan beliau..

Tolong hilangkan kebencian dan dendam. by Ariff Bawono

Aku tarik nafas panjang after reading the articcle, kerana bersyukur ada senggelintir rakyat Indonesia yang terbuka minda dan fikirannya. Its just a FOOTBALL, kalau marahkan nyamuk jangan pula kelambu yang dibakar... Hope we, MALAYSIAN don't do that others apalagi dendam, minta jauhkan dari kesumat hati..

Back to previous entry 3 perkara yg menghancurkan hidup kita

I rest my case..

3 + 3 perkara..

Someone nice posted something nice on his/her FB wall today..

1) ‎Ada 3 hal yang tak pernah kembali:
1. Waktu
2. Perkataan
3. Kesempatan

2) Ada 3 hal yg menghancurkan kehidupan kita:
1. Kemarahan
2. Kesombongan
3. Dendam, iri, dengki.

3) Ada 3 hal yg tak boleh hilang dari kehidupan kita:
1. Cinta kasih
2. Keluarga
3. Sahabat

....But.. for me.. 

Item no.1 and no.2 di atas adalah antara 3+ 3 perkara yg susah utk ditempuhi apa lagi utk melaksanakan sbg Hamba Allah swt, walaupun ayat-ayatnya sungguh mudah utk dibaca kan? :)

Jadi beringat-ingatlah semua ya.. (a reminder to myself too)

Tak ada manusia yang terlahir sempurna

" Tak ada manusia yg terlahir sempurna

Jangan kau sesali, segala apa yang terjadi

Kita pasti pernah, dapatkan cobaan yg berat

Seakan hidup ini tak ada ertinya lagi

Syukuri apa yang ada, hidup adalah anugerah

Tetap jalani hidup ini,melakukan yang terbaik"

Have u heard of this song?

Mesti x prnah... kan?

The song titled 'Jangan Menyerah' and its performed by Indonesian band, The Massive. I tahu its bcoz I layan 'sinetron' @ TV3, Amanah dlm cinta.. Soundtrack lagu drama ni, so dok berkumandang setiap hari..

Anyway, I've watched the real video clip of this song.. Yupp it does touch my heart deeply inside..

Please click : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mTp-OxfkCao

Kita ni hidop, selalu rasa x cukup... Selalu membandingkan hidop orang lain lagi senang dari kitakan.. Mudah sgt rasa tercuit nak itu ini.. Malahan ada yg lagi susah .. Nak cari duit untuk survive pon takat kais pagi and kais petang..

Jadi belajar la bersyukur dgn apa yg ada.. Enjoy the moments.. Mungkin satu hari apa yang kita ada skrg Tuhan akan tarik balik bila2 masa :)

Aura menulis tak turun2 lagi...

Salam all..

One of my relative did asked, "Cik Yanti, apsal blog sunyi??"

PANG!! wat a big slap!!

Mmg betol, its almost 4 months x ketap keyboard ni...hanya fesbuk-ing je skrg.. itu je kan keje kau YANTI!

By the way, bagi impian menjadi surirumah 'yg produktif' (katanya!) I did my kelas menjahit baju kurung last January.. but till now x practice lagi.. kain da potong tapi x jahit2 lagi... mmg agak susah nak jahit baju apa lagi jahit baju kurung kan.. I gv my highest respect to all tukang jahit out there, anda mmg seorang yang TABAH..

kain pertama aku potong sendiri..

Oh ya, sebelom terlupa, my eldest bro, baru je buat majlis bertandang @ my dad's place.. AKHIRNYAAAAAAA selesai! hope u have a wonderful sailing moments with ur newly wedded wife.. semoga dikurniakan zuriat cepat2! Insyaallah..

Lagi brp hari nak sambut puasa... kan?? POSA GANTI x abeh bayor lagi ni.. haiyaaaa... tahu makan je kan!

nnti sambung... :)

For the rest of my life...

beautiful quote for the rest of my life: "The only people you need in your life are the ones that need you in theirs........Life is not about who you've known the longest but it's about who came and never left your side."

Manusia boleh berubah sekelip mata...

Salam.. Its been a while.. busy with… apa lagi kerjala.. Really tired working for 5 ½ days weekly, eventhough pangkat x seberapa.. Then cuti pon, company only declared minimum of 10days listed as public holidays, tak ikut betol2 dlm calendar cuti Malaysia.. ada jugak company macam ni ek.. But what to do, I have no choice, but to stay..earn gaji x seberapa every month, at least bolehla bayar apa yg patut, itupon issue cheque gaji pon x menentu like last month, 11hb baru clear my cheque, oo gile.. So sesiapa yg da ada keje yg stable & company pon ok bayar gaji ikut time, should be bersyukur as compared to me ya.. jagnla nak mengada2 complaint itu & ini**sigh**

Well, I receive a call & visit from a long time friend.. my ex-schoolmate… Her name AFE.. AFE is married with 2 boys.. AFE used to one of the hot chicks during my school time, ramai peminat, ramai boys nk jadi her BF.. But Tuhan tu nak menguji kesabaran.. Lately, she’s got a problem with the hubby.. The details x payah cerita la… The hubby did something without her knowing sekali kantoi pulak thru… *toot*.. She feels its not right for her hubby to do that. Last week after she found out what happened.. so she confronted the hubby. Too bad the hubby just x nak mengaku immediately… but somehow… malas nak continue… kesian to my fren… But from what she told me, both of them are act having communication problem dari dulu lagi.. both byk simpan sampai masa meletup tak tentu pasal.. But I hope, everything will be fine… They need to sort out & sit down thrash out apa2 yg x puas hati & get things done.. FOR me , masih boleh diselamatkan… J Its take two to tango. Masing2 kene pujuk hati & cool down…try to cherish all sweet moments together ya!

Yess, I mengaku, I don’t have right to comment other ppl’s marriage apa lagi, kawan sndiri, and I myself, pon baru setahun jagung married.. Still a lot of bumpy road to go thru out there.. Rezeki & cerita hidop masing2 semua berbeza… Cuma each individuals kene pandai2 pilih which junction to take ahead.. J

Then received another call for a long time fren too.. married & the marriage is almost hujung tanduk.. Such horrifying experience to share about as compared to AFE’s story as above… For me ITS STUPID..

My fren named SE, married & now not able to work coz she’s having pregnancy complication, now she’s 5 months in her pregnancy.. Due to her condition, the O&G advised her to quit her job & resting smpai brsalin.. she decided to quit her job, because dah lama sgt kawin & x da rezki nak ada zuriat, sampaila sekarang.. SO she is depending on her hubby’s salary now.. The hubby earns about RM6K (RM6K bersih da tolak semua apa yg patut!) a month.. kira lebih dari mampula jugak sbb anak baru nak masuk satu kan.. Pendekkan cerita, the hubby cannot take the burden of paying RM500 & RM 200 for the wife’s car’s loan installment& credit cards… The wife said pls help her to pay until she got a job after brsalin nnti.. so kene sabarla kan with the amount of RM700.. So right now, the hubby is having affair with another woman.. & planning to divorce her after brsalin nnti. Alasan, x boleh terima isteri x keje & have to pay RM700 a month, lagi satu yang I tak tahan dgr, he is having a ffair because *the other woman* is working & he doesn’t have to pay anything for her debts.. Tambah lagi, with RM700, he actually can pay & buy other stuff.. Tak tahula if my fren jenis yg demanding, but knowing her, she is not that tye of person.. I really cannot accept the reason why the hubby did that… Ntahla… Kadang2 manusia always want to take a short cut, tak tahu byk lagi haru biru ahead… I cant believe that ada jugak species manusia yg dipanggil suami can actually did that to his wife & apa lagi Anak Orang!. I’m actually almost menangis writing this entry… Its affecting my emotional feeling today.. Really sad & disappointed with what happened.. & its actually open up my eyes with this sort of things.. Just beware & kene bersedia with wat will happen ahead.. just do yr best being a WIFE! Yela.. accepting the fact that, MANUSIA BOLEH BERUBAH SEKELIP MATA...

BYk sgt cerai berai skrg ni, da macam satu culture & ppl don’t take MARRIAGE as IBADAH.. sad thing to say… I hope God will her the most strength to go thru, apa lagi berbadan dua, xde support frm the hubby.. But takpe, rezki anak bila da lahirkan nnti sapa yg tahu.. InsyaALLAH I pray she will have more happiness to come..

Always pray to GOD, to elakkan musibah & malapetaka terjadi pada kita..