6 months in my pregnancy..

Salam all...

its been almost a month x tulis this blog... sekejap je da sebulan yg lalu aku tulis dalam blog...

Alhamdulilah, I'm now 6months (24weeks) in my pregnancy... Meaning, I got 3 months to go... Rasanya x sabar utk menjadi ibu... My tummy, it seems obvious now, but still people commented macam baru 3-4 bulan menagandung.. But i don't care such comments, janji aku sihat & my baby too.. :-D

Kadang2 rasa cemas dan takut untuk bersalin pon ada jugak.. Bermacam2 cerita yang aku dgr daripada kakak, kakak ipar & kawan2 termasuk ibu mertua di luar sana yang sudah ada pengalaman menjadi ibu... Kebanyakkan semua akan menasihatkan aku "DONT WORRY , every mom-to-be will go through the pain, but at the end of the day, bila u tgk muka anak, hilang terus semua sakit".. I hope so.. :-D

Well, my mood swing has come back...

WN sudahpon menjangkakan of my incoming 'mood swing' when i've reached my 3rd trimester in my pregnancy, macam sekarang ni la... Hmmm, mulalah fikiran bercelaru.. Menyampah tengok muka WN pon ada, lagi teruk bila dia tegur yg aku x suka utk didengar atau diterima.. But, kadang2 merengek supaya dia ada selalu disisi pon ada jugak.. Anyway, he seems COOL with it, selalu jugakla calm me down & never stop advising me jgn ikut sgt emosi tu...

OOO yessss.. aku da terasa berat bila nak bangun... kadang2 tu terpaksa menjerit memanggil WN to held me up... buat kerja sikt dirumah pon cepat terasa penat... Haus pon ingat... bergelen air aku minom setiap hari... Kadang2 tu mengidam mkanan yang manis epsc icecream conetto atau sundae strawbery MCD.. ntah2 its gonna be a baby girl kut... Lagi satu aku da start nak 'melawa', meaning i want to look good to go out... hehehe.. Aku serahkan pada Tuhan...

okla.. sudah nak 6.30pm... aku mahu brjalan2.. nak bagi ringan sikit badan ni... salam...

Antenatal checkup Klinik Kesihatan Kerajaan

It was my first experience having antenatal check up di klinik kesihatan kerajaan (KKM) ataupon klinik anak & ibu mengandung yesterday... WOW!! mesti ramai tak percaya kan..?? Hmm... ramai kawan-kawan agak pelik termasuk my own family tertanya-tanya kenapa aku pegi ke situ..? For those yang x pernah pegi & planning o deliver at any Gov hospital, u all kena register 'buka buku merah' di mana-mana Klinik Ibu Mengandung yang berdekatan..

Awal pagi lagi I sent WN ke ofis di Bukit Damansara. Then terus ke KKM di Ampang Mewah, which is near to my house.. Sampai di KKM pukul 8 pagi... I was surprised, the place is so full of people.. Ramainya orang pegi ke klinik ini.. Macam warehouse SALE! Went straight to the counter to take d 'angka giliran'... Mereka yang jaga counter agak 'kerek' asking me too much Q's.. seperti : AWAK NI DA LAMBAT, DAH 5 BULAN BARU NAK DATANG SINI...?? dan satu pertanyaan yang agak terperranjat : MANA SURAT NIKAH? TAKUT MENGANDUNG ANAK LUAR 'TOOT' Hmm.. AGAK TERSENTAP & bagi aku that is so embarassing, rasa macam nak saman je makcik ni.. macam x nak bagi je.. Then, ada seorang sis-nurse yang agak senior & being very accomodative telah menjernihkan keadaan, terus ambil my IC & ask me "Adik ni 1st TIME datang sini ke?".. Then I said YES... I was lucky to have her on my side.. Then she gave me some reg forms for me to fill up.. thats makes my life easier to have to this woman around.. :-D..

Dalam pukul 10.30am, finally my number displayed on the screen, so its my turn now.. Agak sakit pinggang menunggu.. Sempat jugak aku habiskan satu game SUDOKU sambil menunggu :-D. The nurse asked me a lot of Q's.. yela 1st time mendaftar.. Asking my family background/ sickness, any surgeries has been done, allergies, bla..bla.. terus she took my weight , height, my blood sample & urine test... SO far i'm quite satisfied with the service.. Its quite systematic & thorough though its just a klinik kerajaan...

Then dalam lepas 15minit aku dipanggil utk consultation session with the doctor.. Its an Indian woman... After she studied my blood & urine test result.. She told me that my blood ratio a bit low, ratio 10.3, normal rate is 11.o.. I was terrified!! But she said don worry, makan byk daging merah ye & maintain all green veges intake...Ooo kali ni ada satu equipment baru yang x pernah aku jumpa, the doctor scanned the baby's heartbeat sound (bukan ultrasound ye).. Its amazing & wonderful to hear the baby's heartbeat... ALHAMDULILAH, rasa macam nak menangis, happy that my baby is OK :-D

The doctor prescribed some vitamins.. hmmm banyak juga kene ambil... By 11.30am, after collecting the prescriptions, finally i'm done for the day.. FUHHHH! Total almost 4hours I spent at the clinic yesterday.. Do i have to face it everytime i go for the check ups?? OOO ye, that nurse who saved my day, give me some tips, she told me to come after lunch for next appoitment, kurang sikit orang, lesser time to wait as compared the morning session.. So, why not kan..? BTW, i'm satisfied with service given... hope they will maintain the service like this.. U know how much do I have to pay for the bills?? Its ZERO amount.. FOC, only that the KENA TUNGGU LAMA, thats the price that I have to pay... hehehe...

Told WN my experience during dinner @ Teppanyaki Rest, Alpha Angle.. He's happy to hear about it.. Suddenly he asked/ gave me an option whether nak pegi private hopital at wangsa maju or I stick to gov hospital to deliver the baby?? Xpela, I'll stick to gov hospital... so that we can save $$$ for the baby... Banyak nak pakai $$ once the baby arrived... & also can bring ME for a shopping kan?? why not kan?? :-P

Ok thats all for today.. got some housework to do... Salam.....

ilovebeingpregnant

Alhamdulilah. Its being so nice being pregnant lately.. my tummy getting bigger.. my waist now is 30inches... cuma malam aku da susah nak tidor nyenyak.. sometimes i dont sleep at all.. i can feel the baby is mengeras inside... She/he so active at night.... :-D

Ppl said that my tummy doesn't look that obvious for a 5 months pregnancy.. its OK... probbably its 1st pregnancy fro me.. sebab tu baby kecil... OO yes... i don eat fast food at all eversince got pregnant, not advisable by my dear food monitor, siapa lagi kalau bukan WN kan..? so that's why i don't gain weight that much as other ppl espc my close-friends expected me to be HUGE bila mengandung ni... Thank god, we paid visit for ante-nantal checkup yesterday, the doctor said the development of the baby growth is healthy & normal as u can see as below... the spinal bone & the abdomen has developed.. Alhamdulilah... Baby & mother is just doing fine... ;-)

my baby dalam ultrasound... its been 20 weeks now..

So far my life went smoothly, not like the 1st three months of pregnancy, kelam kabut je .. I feel its all most complete... look forward for baby's arrival on next June, InsyaAllah.. no words how to describe how it feels now.. WN being so busy with his night shifts.. Its ok for me... Cari rezekikan... InsyaAllah.. he will be no longer in shifts by midd Feb'09.. will be working on normal working hours... God is giving new opportunities for WN to do what he's wishing to do in his career development.. A big project for him prove himself & to show his credibilities to his new company now... InsyaAllah will fall into place as planned... :-D

awal muharram..lubuk manggis

hmmm.. baru aku tahu aku dilahirkan pada bulan Muharram tahun Islam, iaitu 8 Muharam 1399... so smlm hari Isnin, was actually 8 Muharram... so happy b'day to me.. :-D

Hari sebelom, WN took me to Lubuk Manggis, Ulu Langat.. Dalam pukul 11 pagi kami da bertolak, tunggu member yang aku anggap macam adik angkat, FG datang.. sowe convoy togetehr..Agenda utma ke Lubuk Manggis ialah, picnic & break away jap kat tepi sungai..sahabt baik, SE telah sponsor bekalan makanan bbq... so bakarla di tepi sungai tu... We were lucky, because eventhough hari aga cloudy, tapi hujan x turun.. not like the day before.. Alhamdulilah.. Tuhan izinkan kami bercuti.. :-D

pandangan sungai di Lubuk Manggis Ulu Langat

antara makanan bbq yang sedang dibakar.. best ;-D

So dalam pukul 3.30petang, lepas perut da kenyang & puas bermandi manda, kami pon beransur pulang... Then we went to my parents in law place di Seremban for a while..

The very next day, WN bawa aku jalan2 area bukit bintang, mencari my pregnancy attire...Ooo yess, I managed to cut my hair too.. Its been a long time aku x trim rambut... Its all abt my biday treat la... I pray to God that more happiness wiil to my life & my family...

Another incident happened...

Well... another incidents happened exactly the day after someone hit my car...I fell down in the toilet.. terduduk ok...

WN was in the other room when I'm about to finish cleaning up the toilet.. He immidiately got me bila terdgr barang terjatuh di bilik air (soundtrack yang amat trajis).. Agak panic as if he doesn't know what to do when he saw me that moment... I don't exactly remember what really happened after that.. Yang tahu aku memang x pengsan... It's just happened so fast.. I get up quickly as he asked me to get out from the toilet.. Yes, it was my fault.. He kept reminding to wear slippers whenever in the toilet.. Yela, aku nak cepat mencuci... because all this while nothing bad happen... I took things for granted eventhough in short while... I remembered the words that came from WN's mouth was '"Don't u know that this sort of things really hurting you & the baby too..??" You guys should see how does his face expression at that moment... All I know, he was scared, mad at me, worried about me and the baby...

Yupp me too, the same feelings goes with me .. But I don feel any pain after that.. Cuma rasa sengal2 bisa di kaki dan bahagian pinggul... Dalam hati berdoa that everything will be alright....


The next day i went to see the doctor for my monthly ante-natal checkup... WN was with me as he was on off duty that day... I told the doctor what happened yesterday... She made a thorough checkup throuh ultrasound scan to see whether the baby is ok or not... Alhamdulilah, God is great... Its such a relief when I got that the baby is fine so does the mother too... Its been 15 weeks and I'm in 2nd trimester now... The doctor printed the scanned ultrasound as u can see as above...

Cukupla dengan dua (2) incidents dua hari berturut-turut.. Tak tahula apa dosa yang telah aku lakukan.. Harap2 ini adalah dugaan that I should be more extra-careful after this... InsyaALLAH I'll be strong to face it...

What a BAD HAIR day for me...??? :-(

Salam semua sekali lagi...

guess what..? I got a CAR ACCIDENT today.... (not again... DUH!!!!)

Hari ini... aku jumpa kawan2/ex-colleagues from MIIM for lunch... Aku rindu betul kat diorang semua... Tak dapat jumpa semua, dapat jumpa suku pon jadila... hehehe.. So there were 4 of us, MF, FG, RJ & myself decided to go to the new JUSCO at Keramat AU2... Pegila makan di foodcourt kat situ... Cantik jugak Jusco baru ni, macam shopping complex Alamanda Putrajaya...

Dalam pukul 4 petang, aku decide nak balik... Badan terasa penat... Sempatla juga beli pisang goreng nangka di keramat AU3... Ingatkan nak makan sambil drive to home tapi hajat x kesampaian rupanya..

Aku seperti biasa akan lalu MR2 dari Setiawangsa ke Ampang... Then after the roudabout simpang AU3 aku nampak satu kereta Nissan Bluebird warna gold melulu keluar dari satu simpang.. Aku pulak memang x sempat break sebab aku agak laju dalam 4o km/j... Aku menyimpang sikit ke kanan, but still x berjaya untuk mengelak ... Then the car hit my car belah belakang (passenger's door on the left side)... GOSH!! Aku menjeritla dalam kereta.... Memang MAKI SUMPAH *^$# semuanya keluar dari mulut ku...

Aku tengok cermin rarreview miror, kereta tu ada follow belakang.. Its a WOMAN... Nampak macam bangsa India in mid-4o's...So, i gave signal so that she will stop & discuss more abt it... Aku berhenti & dia pun berhenti sekali... Aku tengok pintu belakang... ALAMAK!! teruk jugak makcik hentam kereta aku... Nak call WN, tapi I'm sure dia masih tido lagi sebab dia shift malam tadi.. Takpela aku settle sendiri selagi boleh...

Dia keluar dari pintu kereta, dia terus say 'I'M TERRIBLY SORRY, it was my mistake'.... She sounded like a foreingner... Dalam hati aku nasib baik kau mengaku kau yang salah.. Then dia terus tanya 'How can i help u?? Do we need to make a police report?? How shall we start?? Just tell me what to do, I'm not from here....' Hah!! My guess was right, she's a foreigner.. She's an Indian Canadian.. working with British Council... haaaa whatever!??!!

Aku masih bengang.. but i keep calm... She's been nice & accomodating.... So aku x tahu nak buat apa.. Fikir lecehla nak police report... Lagipon aku memang da penat... Aku cakap settle sini je la.. Just pay me for the damages... Habis cerita kat sini... So she said dia xde cash tapi she's willing to write a cheque for me... Aku mintakla dalam RM-toot... Bulehla belanja untuk ketuk sikit kat bengkel nanti... We exchanged phone numbers... bla.. bla...

Aku terus drive semula to home... Pisang goreng masih belom disentuh lagi... Balik nantila aku makan... Dalam hati aku nasib baik aku OK.. takde la teruk smpai cedera... Terperanjat tu masih ada lagi terasa sampai sekarang... Hope tomorrow will be a better day for me... Chowww... Salam....

Nombor 30 atau 3+0??

Salam semua..

FYI, I have just turned 30 last Dec 9th'08... Rasa macam x percaya la pulak.... Celebration xde la sangat... Aku dapatla hadiah istimewa dari WN, iaitu MP3 player... cantik & smthing useful for me, at least aku bule juga mendgr ayat-ayat al-quran sejak mengandung nih... Celebrate ngn family aku for dinner, biasalah menu yang 'standard' which are Sate dan Fried Kuey Teow .. Its one of my dad's fav menu... (bukan kene ikut selera b'day girl ke???)

OOO ye.. sebenarnya aku terkene flu on my birthday... Macamane bule kene FLU ni??

I went back to Melaka to celebrate Raya Haji with my dad's side of family... so hari tu, Melaka hujan satu hari, mungkin aku terkene tempias hujan di situ... Its been so delicate of being pregnant, x buleh salah sikit, kene tempias hujan sedikit, da demam... Sakit satu badan x ingat...!!! Triggers my mood swing too! it felt terrible sbb i felt my whole chest has been blocked & difficult for to breath as usual.. Suspense jugak aku, takut penyakit lain pulak yang datang...

Hmmm.. harap2 my baby is doing fine... biarla maknya yang sakit... Aku berjumpa dgn my fav doctor, she prescribed me a medicine for my flu, called MENTHOL CRYSTAL... whereby aku I have to sprinkle a bit of menthol crystal with a boiling water... Then I have to 'sedut' aroma campuran itu... After few mins, it soothes my chest & blocked nose.. It helps to reduce my tiredness & body aching... Thank GOD...

WN x dapat join aku ke Melaka sebabnya dia keje shift malam sebelom & malam pada hari raya haji... Tak sangka pula dia sekarang berjangkit penyakit flu selepas itu... he felt loya & nak muntah too... He got sick lagi teruk dari isteri yang sedang mengandung... ..kesian pulak aku tengok....

So skrg kami berdua masih lagi batuk dan selsema... InsyaAllah, we are about to recover soon... lagila musim hujan ni, lambat lagi nak pulih sepenuhnya...

BTW, I'm already 14 weeks pregnant now.. Alhamdulilah, da 3bulan lebih aku mengandung... Aku mempunyai masalah tidur siang dan malam... Mungkin perubahan perutkan yang semakin besar makes me feel soooo uncomfortable these days.. cant wait for my next medical check-up...

Okla.. thats all i can share my stories rite now... I miss my friends... Planning to have lunch with them tomorrow... Salam.. ;-)