Tak ada manusia yang terlahir sempurna

" Tak ada manusia yg terlahir sempurna

Jangan kau sesali, segala apa yang terjadi

Kita pasti pernah, dapatkan cobaan yg berat

Seakan hidup ini tak ada ertinya lagi

Syukuri apa yang ada, hidup adalah anugerah

Tetap jalani hidup ini,melakukan yang terbaik"

Have u heard of this song?

Mesti x prnah... kan?

The song titled 'Jangan Menyerah' and its performed by Indonesian band, The Massive. I tahu its bcoz I layan 'sinetron' @ TV3, Amanah dlm cinta.. Soundtrack lagu drama ni, so dok berkumandang setiap hari..

Anyway, I've watched the real video clip of this song.. Yupp it does touch my heart deeply inside..

Please click : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mTp-OxfkCao

Kita ni hidop, selalu rasa x cukup... Selalu membandingkan hidop orang lain lagi senang dari kitakan.. Mudah sgt rasa tercuit nak itu ini.. Malahan ada yg lagi susah .. Nak cari duit untuk survive pon takat kais pagi and kais petang..

Jadi belajar la bersyukur dgn apa yg ada.. Enjoy the moments.. Mungkin satu hari apa yang kita ada skrg Tuhan akan tarik balik bila2 masa :)

Aura menulis tak turun2 lagi...

Salam all..

One of my relative did asked, "Cik Yanti, apsal blog sunyi??"

PANG!! wat a big slap!!

Mmg betol, its almost 4 months x ketap keyboard ni...hanya fesbuk-ing je skrg.. itu je kan keje kau YANTI!

By the way, bagi impian menjadi surirumah 'yg produktif' (katanya!) I did my kelas menjahit baju kurung last January.. but till now x practice lagi.. kain da potong tapi x jahit2 lagi... mmg agak susah nak jahit baju apa lagi jahit baju kurung kan.. I gv my highest respect to all tukang jahit out there, anda mmg seorang yang TABAH..

kain pertama aku potong sendiri..

Oh ya, sebelom terlupa, my eldest bro, baru je buat majlis bertandang @ my dad's place.. AKHIRNYAAAAAAA selesai! hope u have a wonderful sailing moments with ur newly wedded wife.. semoga dikurniakan zuriat cepat2! Insyaallah..

Lagi brp hari nak sambut puasa... kan?? POSA GANTI x abeh bayor lagi ni.. haiyaaaa... tahu makan je kan!

nnti sambung... :)

Teringin makan apa??

Makan utk hidop atau hidop utk makan??

Break kejap dari 'menyambung' entry sebelom ini....

Lately mengalahkan preggy yang tgh mengidam...wishlists makan:

Fruit Truffle Pudding

tgh mentelaah resipi dlam internet... nnti bole try resipi...

Tauhu Anoura(ada member jual)

Raja marsina, kalau kau baca kau delivery bole ke rumah??

Mesti ada juga yg tak prnah rasa tauhu ni kan?? apa yg best?? Act,kulitnya tauhu di goreng dgn tepong rangup, intinya kentang lenyek with mixed vege.. sosnya yg 'spesel'.. rasa macam kicap pun ya, sos tiram pon ye jugak, x prnah tanya apa resipi utk sos 'spesel' ni.. tapi aku nak JUGAK!!!!!

Red Velvet Cake @RV

Sebenarnya x prnah makan cake ni. Ppl keep on drooling & obsessed about this cake.. kalau ada rezki nak cari kek RV ni , dapat spotong nak rasa pon ok la.. wondering how it taste like :)

So far itu saja yg terigin nak makan di lubuk 'perut' ni... :)

Selepas 12 bulan kemudian....

As salam...

sudah cukup setahun tidak update entry...

dalam setahun macam@ yg berlaku... suka duka seperti biasa... 3 hari lepas 11 mac 2011, giant tsunami hit Sendai, Japan...

Sebelom tu aku summarised what happened dalam my hidop aku dan keluarga aku selama setahun yg lalu.. :)

April 2010: aku resigned my position sbg senior executive di sebuah kolej swasta di Cheras, KL. Alasan berhenti kerana my maid masa tu need a closer observation... In other words cannot be trusted!! Atas pujukan suami & in laws, aku redha dan lepaskan jwatan yg x seberapa itu. Niat kerana masa depan dan keselamatan anakku seorang masa tu.. If u read my entry sebelom ni ada mention about her -ve misbehaved selama beberapa bulan kerja dgn aku..

May 2010: Hubby , anak dan myself dpat H1N1!!! Kami satu family 'berkampong' di Ampang Putri Hospital selama 5hari... At d same time, I was 7months pregnant to my 2nd child... mmg agak sakit2 badan to have such disease... As I remembered, temp badan mmg x kurang 39 C.. Tekak extra sakit dari biasa.. makan pon xe selera.. apa nak buat da trkene kan... Nsib baik kandungan ok, x de apa yg perlu dirisaukan... berat badan masa tu mmg turun (x ingat berapa kg, tak elok utk preggy turun kg kan)

July 2010: Tanggal 17 Julai 2010, safely delivered to my 2nd baby... It's a girl too, her name isMas Emeelya Nokman.. Kali ni cepat aku bersalin if nak compared the 1st one. Pukul 12tghari (on d same day) aku da start bleeding.. Aku x panik, sbb da jangka, dalam hati aku brkata 'Its TIME!'... Sebelom tu sempat jugak aku prepare lunch masak sambal daging and sayur pak choi n dried mushroom goreng ngn sos tiram.. Then terus roger hubby yg tgh makan masa tu.. Dia pon agak ok masa tu... So he asked me to makan dulu, karang nnti nak meneran xde tenaga pulak.. lepas siap mandi n makan aku bersiapla...
Sebelom ke Hospital Ampang (masa tu) yg hanya 10minit perjalanan, aku 'transit'kan anak aku , Rees dan maid di rumah abahku di Bukit Ampang... kakak ku yg pada masa yg sama pon preggy 7months ada di rumah abah.. Meriahla rumah abah :)
Dalam pukul 1.30tgh sampai di wad O&G. Doktor terus check bukaan bawah, katanya sudah 3cm.. Terus doktor transfer ke Delivery Room... Masa tu contraction sudah mula melanda... Warghhhhhhh! Sakit!!!
Dalam pukul 4pm, I complaint to my hubby, WN, the contraction is getting tense than usual, setiap 2-3 minit. WN terus panggil nurse, nurse masa tu pulak nama lebih kurang my name Wan Norharyanti, dia terus check bwah, ktanya "Puan! Kepala baby da kat bawah ! Lebat rambut. Puan da bole teran sekarang" Aku masih ingat WN cakap "Ha ah bee, I bole nmpak rambut dia!!" Seperti biasa WN melakukan tanggugjawab jadi 'cheerleader' di sisi. Alhamdulilah dalampukul 4.20pm selamat bersalin... Macam x percaya, da 2 anak da skrg!!

August 2010: Lepas 30 hari berpantang, kami sekeluarga berpindah ke Seri Kembangan, sbbnya WN's office moved from Bukit Damansara to Cyberjya.. Dekat la sikit kan... Its a double link house.. Sewa pon agak berpatutan kalau nak compare dgn Bukit Indah tu.. Aku pon x koje.. Mula2 agak kekok tinggal disitu, sbb da biasa ngn Ampang lifestyle..

Emeelya @ 2 months old... sekejap da 2 anak.. Alhamdulilah!

Emeelya @ 1 day old.. selepas meneran bagai nak rak, cair dan hilang penat while she's on mama's arm

Sambung later ya... ada bnda nak kene buat.. Chowww! :)

For the rest of my life...

beautiful quote for the rest of my life: "The only people you need in your life are the ones that need you in theirs........Life is not about who you've known the longest but it's about who came and never left your side."

Lamanya tak tulis blog...The MAID story... :(

Lately, fikiran serabut... U know why?? I'll tel u why..

jawapan.. MAID PROBLEM....

We hired a new maid, SJN.. arrived early January 2010..came all the way from Medan, Indonesia.. we were happy sbb da ada assistant kan.. So... tak payah dok fikir risau tinggalkan Rees kat rumah orang lama2... Both of us balik x tentu masa.. My journey from home to workplace takes about 1 hour.. itupon lalu Bukit Tinjau Ulu Langat, sngaja tak nak lalu MR2... sbb lagi la jem.. kan?? sama jugak masa yg diambil utk smpai rumah bila habis time kerja.. Lagila terkejar-kejar.. Dapt keluar ofis tepat pukul 6ptg, tu kira nasib baik.. Kadang2 tu 6.15ptg la paling awal aku dapat keluar, masa tu la tengah 'peak hour' other parents berkejar utk dapatkan parking sambil menunggu masa sekolah rendah & menengah tamat... Mmgla bersimpang siur bas2 sekolah yang berwarna kuning di bahu jalan.. Dahla jalan kmpung that I have to go thru...

Eh lari tajuk pulak... nak citer pasal maid.. tercerita pulak pasal nk catch up time nak pegi & balik keje pulak.. sory2'..

Ok.. pasal SJN, satu2 nya maid aku skrg.. So sebagai pembantu rumah & merangkap jaga anak aku aku harap dapatla dia kurangkan beban keje dirumah.. Well her job are:

1. Priority : Jaga Rees while Ibu/Bapak pegi keje (I transitkan diorg di rumah my dad, while I'm off to work).. Sambil Rees tido.. kena kemas rumah & help to do the laundry.. etc... * pandai2 la makan sendiri, selalunya i asked her to pack makanan smlm dinner utk dia mkn her lunch.. so xdela dia terkocoh2 nk prepare makan sendiri kan.. Baik tak aku??
2. Kalau ibu & bapak pulang or ada dirumah: Masak, kemas rumah, do the laundry, gosok baju.

Kalau nak ikutkan, keje dia senang xde lah seberat spt maid2 yg lain.. tapi still x reti2 nak bersyukur..

SJN ni, she always wants freedom.. dok mengata kat maid2 lain epsc to my in-law's maid , keje dia bosan & mudah, tapi majikan x bagi keluar nak pegi jalan or borak2.. Lagi satu hal, she thinks that she's the most perfect woman in the world & sangka dialah paling cantek among other maids.. Always comparing herself with other maids as the perfect one,yg best tu selalu mention yg dia ada body yg cantek??!! So for her, maid2 lain x cantek, semua patut ikut macam dia.. Hey Pompuan! Come onla.. org cantek takan ckap dia cantek la! Jgn nak perasan... Sedarla diri tu! Smtimes I feel like I want to shout at her and say smthing like this "Kalau awak tu cantek sgt, suami awak tu takkan kawin pompuan lain & tinggalkan awak anak-beranak!" But.. I keep on saying to myself.. SABAR la.. no need & its BAD to say to that, I am not as bad as her.. kan?

*One fine day, as I am about to pack stuff & excited to go back to Seremban to meet my in laws, she did something out of our expectation.. The conversation went something like this: **

Date/Time: 13th February 2010 (Saturday, Chinese New Year), early in the morning about 8am...

Scene: Depan TV kat rumah, I am packing Rees's stuff & WN sittting on the couch playing with Rees.

The dialogue went on like this...

SJN: Ibu, saya sakit dada ni.. saya amat rindu pada anak2 saya.. sempena ibu libur (cuti) saya mahu pulang ke kampung sebentar untuk ketemu anak2.. Saya berjanji akan pulang bekerja selepas ketemu anak2 saya..

Me: (SILENCE..SPEECHLESS.. rasa nak jatuh jantung aku siot! looking at WN,he terdiam too.. after few seconds, I tarik nafas panjang..I finally said..) SJN, kamu tak boleh pulang walaupon sekejap, kontrak belom habis, bagaimana ibu bisa bagi kamu pulang..

SJN: (Being so persuasive & buat muka kesian..) Tolong bu', saya pulang sebentar aja bu'' saya janji saya akan pulang, kalau terus begini, saya enggak bisa jaga Hareessa dgn baik.. (dlm hati berkata, ini satu ugutan, x boleh jaga hareessa ngn baik??)

Me: (still speechless.. ) SJN, kamu masuk dalam bilik sebentar, bagi ibu dgn bapak bincang dulu, nanti ibu panggil kamu balik..

(With frustrated look... She walked in her room..)

WN: She really can't go back as stated in the agreement.. let's us give a call to Madam BF (the agent) & let her speak & highlight to SJN that she can never go back until her contract finishes...

Me: (Me being blur & disappointed... WN gv his hand phone & straight away dial Madam BF's number)

Madam BF pick up the phone & I explained the situation , ask her help to speak & explain to SJN that she can't go back at all.. Madam BF asked me to pass me the phone to SJN & please put on the speaker phone so that WN & me can listen their conversation. SJN seems to understand & accepting the fact that she may not be able at all to balik kampung after what Madam BF explained to her..

Still.. me being rasa da tak sedap hati after that morning & terus lagila tak boleh TRUST her after of waht she had done..

Despite that, she keeps on creating issues, x puas dok sakitkan hati maid2 lain.. lately, it involves my family pulak... both immediate & in-laws family.. Terukkan?

Rees was hospitalized for few days at Ampang Putri (APSH) for her prolonged cough.. so the Paed's advised us that Rees needs a observation & proper medical treatment. WN & I, decided to 'tumpangkan' SJN at my dad's house la while I have to be there for Rees at the hospital.. So while I'm away,I briefed her to do the house chores dalam 3 hari 2 malam tu .. Apa lagi, dia tahu aku & WN xde, dia 'tunjuk belangla' kat family aku..

One nite, she asked permission from my bro that she wants to go out for a while jumpa maid jiran sebelah.. So my bro mcm tak tahu nk ckp apa, so bagila dia pegi jumpa kawan dia sekejap.. So my bro kata in 1 hour dia balik.. Then the next following nite, dia keluar lagi, but this time, dia x inform saper2 in the house.. She took the keys & leave the house just like that.. So adek ipar aku pulak la kantoi dia.. Masa tu SJN baru balik jumpa kawan & she saw SJN holding holding the house keys.. So she asked SJN, why did u bring the keys along? U know apa SJN replied?? She said takut nnti bila dia balik , pintu da brkunci & xde saper dgr nak bukakan pintu utk dia.. **SIGH**

So cukup 3 hari, aku bercamping ngn Rees di APSH, alhamdulilah Rees is recovering, so bolehlah discharged.. We singgah my dad's hose to pick SJN la.. Sementara lepak2 tu, my bro & sis in law hantar le report kat kitorg, they told us what happened.. Aku dgr apa yg diorg sampaikan, terus berasap telinga & mendidih darah aku! WN kindly reminded me not to confront SJN yet.. as I'm mentally & physically tired after 3 days taking care of Rees.. So its not a good time for me to confront SJN.. Its a lucky day for SJN.

I confronted SJN , I think after 2 days kut baru I confronted SJN.. sebabnya I was not well bila balik rumah.. caught in a bad flu... GUESS what?? She denied, she said she just went out for a while WITHOUT bringing the keys along with her.. She wants to confront both my bro & his wife.. wah bukan main..BERANI! But I decided not to, I followed my instinct.. because I believe she's good in making up stories.. Kalau dah 2 org saksi, takkan masih x mengaku kot..

My instinct was rite..

After had a discussion with WN & his family, we decided to bring SJN backto Seremban last weekend to have some kind of 'brainwash session' for my maid. My in-laws including their maid yg 'terasa hati' & the agent was there too for the session.. SJN being SJN.. kepala batu & still x nak mengaku salah.. As for me, its such a waste, because SJN being so 'keras hati' will NOT ever mengaku salah sampai mati .. Alasan yg tak boleh diterima, SHE CANNOT REMEMBER...

CONCLUSION..?? what would u do if u r in my shoes..??

to be continueddd... wait for the next episode...

Manusia boleh berubah sekelip mata...

Salam.. Its been a while.. busy with… apa lagi kerjala.. Really tired working for 5 ½ days weekly, eventhough pangkat x seberapa.. Then cuti pon, company only declared minimum of 10days listed as public holidays, tak ikut betol2 dlm calendar cuti Malaysia.. ada jugak company macam ni ek.. But what to do, I have no choice, but to stay..earn gaji x seberapa every month, at least bolehla bayar apa yg patut, itupon issue cheque gaji pon x menentu like last month, 11hb baru clear my cheque, oo gile.. So sesiapa yg da ada keje yg stable & company pon ok bayar gaji ikut time, should be bersyukur as compared to me ya.. jagnla nak mengada2 complaint itu & ini**sigh**

Well, I receive a call & visit from a long time friend.. my ex-schoolmate… Her name AFE.. AFE is married with 2 boys.. AFE used to one of the hot chicks during my school time, ramai peminat, ramai boys nk jadi her BF.. But Tuhan tu nak menguji kesabaran.. Lately, she’s got a problem with the hubby.. The details x payah cerita la… The hubby did something without her knowing sekali kantoi pulak thru… *toot*.. She feels its not right for her hubby to do that. Last week after she found out what happened.. so she confronted the hubby. Too bad the hubby just x nak mengaku immediately… but somehow… malas nak continue… kesian to my fren… But from what she told me, both of them are act having communication problem dari dulu lagi.. both byk simpan sampai masa meletup tak tentu pasal.. But I hope, everything will be fine… They need to sort out & sit down thrash out apa2 yg x puas hati & get things done.. FOR me , masih boleh diselamatkan… J Its take two to tango. Masing2 kene pujuk hati & cool down…try to cherish all sweet moments together ya!

Yess, I mengaku, I don’t have right to comment other ppl’s marriage apa lagi, kawan sndiri, and I myself, pon baru setahun jagung married.. Still a lot of bumpy road to go thru out there.. Rezeki & cerita hidop masing2 semua berbeza… Cuma each individuals kene pandai2 pilih which junction to take ahead.. J

Then received another call for a long time fren too.. married & the marriage is almost hujung tanduk.. Such horrifying experience to share about as compared to AFE’s story as above… For me ITS STUPID..

My fren named SE, married & now not able to work coz she’s having pregnancy complication, now she’s 5 months in her pregnancy.. Due to her condition, the O&G advised her to quit her job & resting smpai brsalin.. she decided to quit her job, because dah lama sgt kawin & x da rezki nak ada zuriat, sampaila sekarang.. SO she is depending on her hubby’s salary now.. The hubby earns about RM6K (RM6K bersih da tolak semua apa yg patut!) a month.. kira lebih dari mampula jugak sbb anak baru nak masuk satu kan.. Pendekkan cerita, the hubby cannot take the burden of paying RM500 & RM 200 for the wife’s car’s loan installment& credit cards… The wife said pls help her to pay until she got a job after brsalin nnti.. so kene sabarla kan with the amount of RM700.. So right now, the hubby is having affair with another woman.. & planning to divorce her after brsalin nnti. Alasan, x boleh terima isteri x keje & have to pay RM700 a month, lagi satu yang I tak tahan dgr, he is having a ffair because *the other woman* is working & he doesn’t have to pay anything for her debts.. Tambah lagi, with RM700, he actually can pay & buy other stuff.. Tak tahula if my fren jenis yg demanding, but knowing her, she is not that tye of person.. I really cannot accept the reason why the hubby did that… Ntahla… Kadang2 manusia always want to take a short cut, tak tahu byk lagi haru biru ahead… I cant believe that ada jugak species manusia yg dipanggil suami can actually did that to his wife & apa lagi Anak Orang!. I’m actually almost menangis writing this entry… Its affecting my emotional feeling today.. Really sad & disappointed with what happened.. & its actually open up my eyes with this sort of things.. Just beware & kene bersedia with wat will happen ahead.. just do yr best being a WIFE! Yela.. accepting the fact that, MANUSIA BOLEH BERUBAH SEKELIP MATA...

BYk sgt cerai berai skrg ni, da macam satu culture & ppl don’t take MARRIAGE as IBADAH.. sad thing to say… I hope God will her the most strength to go thru, apa lagi berbadan dua, xde support frm the hubby.. But takpe, rezki anak bila da lahirkan nnti sapa yg tahu.. InsyaALLAH I pray she will have more happiness to come..

Always pray to GOD, to elakkan musibah & malapetaka terjadi pada kita..